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Goulden said: "The police service in Scotland have domestic abuse as a top priority because if we can't stop violence in the home, how are we going to stop it in the street?
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"So we can do great work in investigating offences and supporting victims but we need to change attitudes and send a message that public aggression is not acceptable.
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"We need to understand why bystanders don't get involved and it's usually because they're scared, they don't want to make the situation worse, so it's about giving people knowledge about how to intervene."
He suggests there are ways of speaking out to stop violence, without aggravating a situation, if people don't feel comfortable getting involved.
"The central issue is the control of another person and interfering with their personal space and dignity, and nobody has the right to do that."
"I hope people can understand you can challenge this behaviour. We all have different definitions of playful but the descriptions of what happened don't sound like play."
"But if you see violence or hear it, you phone the police as a basic minimum and be assured that Police Scotland will attend, they'll investigate and there'll be support for the victim.
For many, it's shocking that, had these pictures not been published, Saatchi might never have been challenged about his behaviour. It raises wider questions about our role as onlookers.
"Even the silly sexist joke it may sound like political correctness gone wrong but we know where this acceptance can lead to.
"We have a lot of young girls in society who see being hit and controlled as part of a relationship and that's something we need to change."
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violent act. We need to look at what we as men can do to step up to the plate to challenge other men our friends, family about their behaviour."
The VRU are leading a Mentors in Violence Prevention project in schools to encourage bystanders to act against abuse rather than ignore it something that empowers the abuser.
"Most men are law abiding and caring but there are a few who get a sense of privilege and power from our silence and lack of intervention.
Charles Saatchi dismisses pictures showing him holding wife Nigella Lawson by throat as playful tiff as they argued over their kidsWhile no official complaint has been made by TV chef Nigella, 53, police are likely to question the couple.
Goulden believes how we talk about domestic violence Lv Bucket Bag often attributing aggressive acts to being part of a "row" also needs to change.
She said: "Several people who were witnesses spoke to the press afterwards but didn't feel able to intervene at the time, which is disheartening.
that in a public place, what is he doing in a private setting?
He said: "I can't comment on this specific incident but if someone is behaving in an aggressive way in public, what's actually taking place in the house?
Graham Goulden, chief inspector of Scotland's Violence Reduction Unit (VRU), believes if men behave aggressively towards their partner in public, it raises serious questions about what goes on in the home.
She said: "Whether you're a millionaire or on the dole, aggressive acts in public are sometimes about humiliation and controlling someone else.
Lily Greenan, manager of Scottish Women's Aid, hopes the incident will help inform the public about what is unacceptable behaviour.
"You could speak to the victim afterwards, to make sure they are okay, or the perpetrator afterwards if they're known to you.
Dundee psychologist Dr Andrina McCormack, who has worked with victims of domestic violence, says aggressive acts in public are often about control.
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He added: "If you can achieve a distance from the situation and shout to let them know you're watching, that can often be enough to stop it.
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